"If" being the operative word.
It's important not to automatically assume all of them want that.
Of course many of them will say they do - and mean it, particularly in PH’s case; for some however, especially in MM's case, it may be no more than a polite gesture, and a number of them may have chosen to stay silent. Those who say nothing often speak loudest!
It's not dissimilar to the old story about being invited to the boss's dinner party. You go, you make all the appropriate noises, say all the right things - even if you may not like them very much. Same with meeting the boss's partner. You may like them - or think they're awful and a complete waste of space but of course you don't say that to them, do you? You say nice things, because that's what is done.
You're right. That's why I said if. As of right now, it seems as if they want the both of them. If information comes out that changes that, then it changes it but as now, they had no issues and were excited to see Meghan.
So with the evidence we have, it stands to reason that it's learning more towards that I said. Things can change but that seems to be the reality right now.
With the greatest of respect changemysoul, I must disagree.
What was she doing then, leading marches of servicemen and competitors? At least PH served in the forces; he has earned the right to do that. MM - no right whatsoever. She has never served (and in her husband’s country where she was supposed to serve us, her contribution was negligible). She was also completely inappropriately dressed for the occasion - and very sloppily too; shirt buttons undone, collar untidy, wearing those ridiculous shorts - and a pair of what suspiciously looked like sliders. Incredibly disrespectful IMO. A Butlins Redcoat would have made a better job of their appearance.
Why not dress respectfully? Or in Invictus branded clothing? Why flash her legs - not an agreeable sight - at all and sundry? I reiterate: attention.
I felt awful for those brave and noble people who between them have given so much in service of their countries and made so many sacrifices, forced to walk behind someone who frankly, IMO, has given very little indeed and sacrificed nothing.
It was embarrassing to see.
Embarrassing for you and to you. That is the key point. You don't speak for everyone. Meghan was walking as apart of the medal ceremony. Like others. As his wife, she has every right. Just like she has the right of every other person who did the same thing she did.
Just as you said IMO. To me, I don't have an issue with a woman showing her legs, it's not scandalous and once again, it's a sporting event. They weren't in a church or at a graveyard. Invictus branding or not, she was dressed fine, just not to your taste. Those are two different things.
She walked with those receiving medals because that what the people giving out medals do. She was dressed in the correct event clothing for a sports event that was mostly in the sun. When she had other engagements, she changed her outfits as needed.
As for bringing another point/dig in, you don't have any say if her work while being in the family is negligible or not. I doubt the people who benefitted from her work feel that way.
And if your thoughts, she was attention seeking. I don't think she was and I would say that ends that.
The problem from my perspective isn’t being unable to watch the games per se - I did watch some, and now it's over and everyone has gone home, I will likely watch more. The issue is that as soon as MM appeared and began to take over as per, such as in the way described above, it put me right off.
When I followed the link you very kindly supplied and watched PH’s speech, for five minutes I saw the old Prince Harry again, the lad I felt sorry for and had liked and admired, a valued and important part of our BRF and our country. How things have changed since then.
Not much I can say to as it's personal feelings again.
I can say she didn't take over. She has natural charisma that makes people want to be around her or the camera follow her IMO but she didn't run onto any courts and starts playing the games.
She didn't rip the microphone out of anyone hands.
She didn't do anything but exist and be by her husbands side. There isn't much she can do to change that for you but disappear and seeing as she doesn't need to do that. It'll always be a personal battle.
If you could describe what she actually did to take over aside from doing what others did and just be there. I'd gladly listen to you. If you can point out an instance in which she actually tried to make it the Meghan show and just the clothing she wore because showing legs and etc was happening with everyone who attended in some fashion. I'll listen.
I'm glad you were able to glimpse of what you feel was the old Harry. What I saw was a man who was always good at his opening and closing speeches, giving another one of those speeches.
In terms of going forward, I agree; it’s for the best, indeed a wise course of action - but it’s not quite as simple as that.
The BRF have had to deal with the damage done by H&M - Megxit, Oprah et al, while coping with imminent and actual sad bereavements that have resulted in seismic changes. Actions have consequences, and already having such difficult challenges to face, the last thing the BRF have needed. That’s not fine at all.
It is more than a little poetic justice that H&M have now received a hefty dose of their own medicine, as their popularity has plunged in the U.S. - again by their own actions. It is well deserved.
I don't see the popular plunge you're talking about but sure. That doesn't really matter to me. It's more as if the US as whole doesn't care and the same loud voices are yelling but the result isn't some huge drop in popularity or support. It might be well deserved to you but I overall don't agree with your assessment so there isn't much to be done there.
I do choose the use the term Sussexit because Megxit was created by right leaning trolls and then made bigger by the British Media. It also takes away Harry's agency as a grown man and puts it on his wife in attempt to coddle him.
And as for the BRF, I shrug my shoulders again because my view on them, how it's been with them and their lack of action and the times they do take action is very soured. On this point, we won't agree at all. I don't feel sorry and I don't think they're some innocent, wide eyed people who did nothing wrong or didn't play a part.
Might not fully agree on this last part. You say it can't be as a simple as that. I think it very well can be as simple as that. But we do agree that them not speaking, not talking to each other and moving on with their lives is the best way forward.
And I think we could end it or else it'd be rehashing and going back and forth which is against the rules.
You don't care for them and don't believe in them.
I do care for them and I do believe in them.
I doubt either of us will change anytime soon on that matter.