Queen Claude
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To clarify, there were two incidents, right? One was in September 2023 when Harry came to the UK for the Well Child Awards, requested to stay at Windsor Castle, was offered Balmoral, Harry stated that was not doable due to the distance from London and his schedule, and stayed in a hotel.
The second incident was a few months ago, May 2024, when Harry traveled to London for the Invictus Thanksgiving service. Harry was offered lodging at Buckingham Palace, rejected the offer and stayed in a hotel.
It is certainly not unfathomable that King Charles is being protected from Harry, as the monarch, an elderly man, and as someone undergoing cancer treatment, although it should be noted that the cancer diagnosis came after the September 2023 visit. Yes they are father and son, but regardless of whose "side" you are on, it can't be disputed that their relationship has been fraught for years. Ironically history seems to be repeating itself where Harry's mother, and presumably her siblings, were given limited access to her / their ailing father.
I put this more on Harry, not because I don't see that there is not pettiness or power-playing going on on both sides, but Harry is the one squawking the most about family reconciliation, further compounded by his security concerns. It sounds like security and reconciliation are paramount to Harry until he finds out he is not going to get his way / sit at the cool kids tables, then staying at London hotels is acceptable. And while I believe that Harry can be safe at one of London's numerous high-end hotels, royal properties are safer.
If Harry wants to stomp off in a snit over not getting his way, whatever, but when these actions are taking place while he is expressing grave concern over his and family's safety and taking legal action, there is a disconnect IMO.
The second incident was a few months ago, May 2024, when Harry traveled to London for the Invictus Thanksgiving service. Harry was offered lodging at Buckingham Palace, rejected the offer and stayed in a hotel.
It is certainly not unfathomable that King Charles is being protected from Harry, as the monarch, an elderly man, and as someone undergoing cancer treatment, although it should be noted that the cancer diagnosis came after the September 2023 visit. Yes they are father and son, but regardless of whose "side" you are on, it can't be disputed that their relationship has been fraught for years. Ironically history seems to be repeating itself where Harry's mother, and presumably her siblings, were given limited access to her / their ailing father.
I put this more on Harry, not because I don't see that there is not pettiness or power-playing going on on both sides, but Harry is the one squawking the most about family reconciliation, further compounded by his security concerns. It sounds like security and reconciliation are paramount to Harry until he finds out he is not going to get his way / sit at the cool kids tables, then staying at London hotels is acceptable. And while I believe that Harry can be safe at one of London's numerous high-end hotels, royal properties are safer.
If Harry wants to stomp off in a snit over not getting his way, whatever, but when these actions are taking place while he is expressing grave concern over his and family's safety and taking legal action, there is a disconnect IMO.
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