So true. For some elderly, they consider it as family members or authorities trying to take their independence away.
For SOME elderly? For most of them! I’ve had to do this twice.
My sister, 1500 miles away, called to tell me that our mother had randomly driven to a town she did not know about 200 miles away. The police called my sister and said they would keep her there until she could be picked up. Both my sister and her husband then left work and drove 4 hours there and 4 hours back to bring her and her car home.
My feisty mother refused to consider giving up driving (she was nearly 85, and had always been a safe driver). So I had to fly down there and enforce it. Not pleasant, but we couldn’t be sure she wouldn’t do the same thing again, and we couldn’t be sure that she wouldn’t forget other things while driving, like not pulling out in front of cars that had the right of way, or driving through red lights or stop signs.
We felt that we would be responsible if she caused harm to herself or others by continuing to drive. And how many times would she have to be retrieved from strange towns far away?
My 90-year-old FIL turned left out of traffic and was t-boned by an oncoming car he didn’t see coming. No injuries, the cops drove him home, he hung up his keys for good, drank a glass of brandy, and called us. He didn’t need to be told his driving days were over. And his genius brain continued til the end of his life, but his eyesight and reflexes did not.
The Duke’s family needs to take the lead on this before something else happens. He will not be inconvenienced, and he will appear more dignified if he retires from driving with grace.