I can't believe how far this story is going! Now that I'm caught up a bit, I have a lot of thoughts.
Still, it's interesting that she talks and the actual driver does not. So, that clearly was a possibility... And she is not just sharing what happened but also tries to gain sympathy by explaining how hard her life is. Of course, an accident is quite a shock and even more confusing when the other party happens to be a famous person but it would have been much better had she taken the advice given and processed all that happened with her friends and family instead of with the media.
I do feel sorry for Ms. Fairweather. It seems she has had a rough time of it before the crash happened. However, the impression I got from her interview was that:
1) her lawyer is probably mad at her for talking, especially if her statements about how fast the driver was going and the weather conditions can be contradicted by evidence
2) her lawyer told her that she doesn't have a strong enough case, which is why she accepted payment for the interview.
“...that luckily turned out quite well for everyone involved...” Not really. One totaled car, and one severely damaged...one broken wrist which may prevent the passenger from working...one traumatized driver and baby.
Incidentally, it’s hard to believe the Duke wasn’t injured if he was not wearing his seat belt- he could have been thrown from the car. (And that is how you can injure others if not wearing a seat belt. You can land on someone else’s car, or you can land in the roadway, leading to another crash when someone swerves in order to miss hitting you.)
At one point, I received training as a child passenger safety technician. Even though we talked about safety for a child in a car seat, we were also instructed to tell caregivers that their actions had an influence and that they needed to wear a seat belt at all times. We also learned about how crash forces impact the body and watched many, many crash test videos to see crashes in slow motion. After some of the things I've seen, I will never wear just a lap belt again.
As a safety tech, I am grateful the child involved was in a car seat. Every time I hear about a child dying in a crash, there's usually a line about how the car seat was not used correctly or not used at all. At 9 months, he was probably in a rear-facing seat, which is safest. One safety expert I worked with called this the "orphan" seat because rear-facing infants often survive crashes that kill their parents in the front seat.
There is a certain irony to this discussion about the Queen and Prince Philip wearing or not wearing seat belts. If Diana had been wearing a seat belt that night in Paris, she probably would still be alive today.
Unfortunately, the palace has not handled the situation very well. Most people could have overlooked the "new" car being delivered. It was the sight of Philip driving that really drove the discussion. And of the Queen's children, the only one who could persuade Prince Philip to give up driving is Princess Anne. Instead, her public comments the day after the accident seemed very tone-deaf and that did not help at all.