Which makes Harry not meeting him, nor getting on a plane with Meghan right after the wedding, when they realized he has fallen pray, to go see him and physically talk to him, that much worse!
Thomas seems a lot like my late grandmother, very proud, very lonely. Easily wounded in the heart.
You can’t just issue them orders, especially if they don’t know you, if they never met you, if you never did the extra mile to go see them face to face, they will not listen.
He is 100% cancerian, if you hurt them oh boy! (And Meghan being a selfish Leo, with Harry Virgo- dear lord!), and I can imagine never meeting his future son-law has hurt him greatly, as well as his self esteem, might have made him think Meghan no longer cares for him and that she is ashamed of him.
Which left him vulnerable to be used.
I continue to say: not making sure her dad and Harry met us the fractured vase this entire house of cards is collapsing on her.
It would have prevented the entire letter problem with her friends talking about it.
And I wodner, the court papers says she claims to have had no idea her friends were gonna speak and spill those very private info to people, did she cut them off of her life for talking to the press?