I agree, but why would he find it hard to deal with being second fiddle? He's known this all his life...most likely that came from Meghan, if it is true that it was said at all. Reading the excerpts this morning I sadly conclude that they are working th. So sad.
Its possible that Harry's always had some resentment to the idea that he was second fiddle even if he said otherwise. I felt at times that he was trying too hard to show himself, when he started royal duties.. that he wanted to be loved adn noticed, which may have been a subconscious resentment of the fact that he wasn't going to be first. And now in the past couple of years, it is closer to the time that his father may become King and his brother will be POW... and it has hit him more now. Plus yes Meg may have added to his unhappiness with being second.
I wouldn't wish for a new marriage to break up.. but what if Harry isn't all that happy in the US? He always spoke of (if he weren't royal) working in Africa.. rather than LA.. and since they haven't' been able to start working.. Or if he feels depressed and wants to go back to the UK would Meg come with him?
But why was this responsibility assigned to the Cambridges?
What about other members of the RF? What about Sophie, or Anne?
When Harry and Meghan were living in Nott Cott, there was speculation that they got along well with Eugenie and Jack.
But although all the Yorks were often out and about in London, I never saw a single time when they were photographed with the Sussexes.
In fact, I can't remember any times when Meghan was pictured with any other members of the family, except for official engagements.
I think that some of the press/public who watch royals, tend to imagine that because 2 royals are the same age, or palled around when they were children.. or lvie near each other, they are going to be friends.
However Wil and Harry DID seem to be very close as kids, bonded by the death of their mother and being close in age. One might not expect Anne or Sophie to befriend Meg but Will and Kate were another matter...
I thougt that they were close as they grew up. I was surprised when Harry said that he was "looking forward to getting to know Kate" when she and W got engaged.. as she had been dating Will for years and years and i would have thought that Harry must have met her often and gotten to know her.. But it seems not.
So maybe it is not that odd that Will and Harry aren't so close now and Will and Kate didn't form a friendship with Harry and Meg...
But all this seems to contradict what H said 2 years ago when he and Meg were engaged... where he seemed to give the impression that Meg had met all the RF and the Spencers and they all loved her and it was all oh so happy... DId he grossly exaggerate how fond the RF were of her back then and how happy she had been with them? or did the RF's attitude change?