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I think we can only suppose on these things
ricarda said:On what pictures is their body language mostly cold seeming, I wonder.
On the last ones with their children or when they were leaving the hospital?
The Easter pictures? The pictures from the Norwegian birthday celebrations?
The Australian holiday pictures? Or the pictures of their trips to Brussels, St.Petersburg or Bornholm?
IMO there are actually a lot of pictures showing their good relationship during the past year.
Moreover Frederik seems as happy as a lark since he is married to Mary.
Constantly smiling from one ear to the other.
Would he look as happy if he had spent the last 3 years - and not just 3 days - with Victoria?
I doubt it (since I believe Victoria is quite a bossy woman).
And I don't see any love or sexual attraction between those two in the pictures taken during the state visit.
In my eyes the pictures simply show a complicity between two persons who are somehow sitting in the same boat.
(Btw, have you ever seen pictures of Frederik and Victoria during the opening of the Oresundbridge in 2000.
That's what I would call cold body language.)
I agree though that Mary and Frederik should do more together, not because I think there is something wrong,
but simply because I like them very much as a couple.
They never did a lot of work together in Denmark, so actually nothing has changed in that respect.
But they did more and longer official trips together in the beginning.
And that's what I miss a bit.
ricarda said:Could you give a picture, please?
Who says I disagree that there <wouldn't> be any love between the two?ricarda said:I could definitely see a lot of love there.
I do get the sense though, rightly or wrongly, that Felipe and Letizia win some points here on the romantic front, but my sense actually here is that that may well have to do something with the difficult time they've recently been through, who is to say?ricarda said:Things may be less romantic nowadays but this goes for the Spanish couple as well.
I noticed that too but here's my take on it: it made it seem like he's trying way way too hard to make a concerted effort. What I mean is: the forcedness of his gestures made me think he was just trying to please a visiting acquintance. IF he'd been privately interested, shall we say, he'd have been behaving quite differently, more laid-back, more, well, Fred. Here he was looking more like he was <acting>!royaltywatcher said:What struck me in the pictures of Frederick and Victoria was how often he was leaning into her, or over her, or his body was overlapping hers.
princess olga said:I'm thinking maybe the following is the case: pre-all these crown princesses, before they took center stage, there was at least half a decade where Victoria would be the only cute princess around all these then equally-single, second-cousin princes such as Fred and Felipe. Victoria's just used to behaving a certain way towards them, a leftover of those days? I'm thinking there was something immature about her, definitely compared to the sophistication of someone like Mary.
Well, in once sentence: Diana in the early nineties posing alone at the Taj Mahal. Remember that picture? Anyone seeing that picture, knew: her marriage ain't that great after all.gudeeya said:why is it always in our nature to think about the negative.. does it really matter if he was leaning more towards victoria in those pictures? he's got eyes for mary only and everyone else is just puppets..
Hmm, that's all fine and good, but how <professional> is that though? You're representing an entire nation, and what do you do? You flirt with your cousin, just like in the old days.acdc1 said:This may be possible, but I think Victoria is just an out-going, flirty type of person. We all have somebody in our life like that- we just learn to deal with them. I also think Victoria just loves Frederik as a cousin or friend, someone to have fun with.
billie-jo said:lena that is your opinion you do not know them do you?
i get your point but give them a break too.
victoria can not be with frederik i wish people saying
this , she is the swedish crownprincess and she as a boyfriend as well
frederik and victoria friend's and cousin's as well, frederik love 's is
wife. because he doe's not hold her hand all the time doe's not say he
doe'snt love her,god sake's leave them a lone.know one know's what
their do behind close door's their mite hold hands and do what very married couple do, i will not here but think you can guess. and play with their children
as well. i feel that some people can get over the fact frederik is happy
and in love with a australian girl, know i will be shot down fro saying all
this but i had it with people all say's giving mary and frederik a hard time
about nothing, so what she was not had the swedish visit god she just had
baby.if i have up set anyone please tell me , i am i mite down these's day's
my father as cancer again for the third time., i am sorry to up set anyone here.
billie-jo
princess olga said:But for some reason the coquettishness of Victoria irritated me this time, maybe she's just a flirt. I remember reading on this forum on Fred and Mary's wedding thread, that Victoria, at Fred's wedding, when she spotted Felipe of Spain, was really touchy feely with him until she noticed the stare of Felipe's bride to be!
Unfortunately I don't have a "Mary&Frederik sugar brain washing powder", so I guess I can't help you.Lena said:Mary and Frederik are for me "event ppl"...like these women and men, who always want to marry for the wedding itself. Yes, they looked happy at the little princess´presentation. And who wouldn´t...healthy sweet baby girl and all...what more can one hope for. But to me it seemed like two happy ppl...but not like two ppl happy with each other. The same at Christian´s first day at the Kiga.
In big moments they seem thrilled by the attention and play the show. No warmth, no closeness, no deep looks. At more ordinary things, there is even not the show. It´s simply not like Haakon and Mette Marit. With them there seems to be so much warmth, and deep respect for each other, they seem to have fun together.
But with Mary and Frederik, I simply can´t see that. And what should I do? I´ve no reason to like or dislike them. None of them has ever done anything bad or good to me. It´s simply a feeling. But if you have some "Mary&Frederik sugar brain washing powder", it´s most welcome.
I don't think they hate the cameras but on the other handSome hate the cameras, some not. That Mary (and Frederik) belong to the latter group..
Sorry, but IMO your own remark about F&M's cold body language during the whole last yearIt might be better, if there would be more steady balanced views on them (having neither really positive, nor negative feelings on them) but this doesn´t seem to work.
I personally decided to interpret the way Frederick and Victoria behaved during the State visit as having as reason the fact that Victoria, after having seem the ummphteenth time how marriage and fatherhood made Frederick happy, decided to confide in him her little secret: there's a wedding, marriage and mothership in her future, too - and fast! As long as it's kept a secret, she couldn't confide in anybody except her cousin from Denmark. Probably she invited him to the event but made clear that it's still a secret - so these two behaved like conspirators in one happy conspiracy... Just my speculation, of course...acdc1 said:This may be possible, but I think Victoria is just an out-going, flirty type of person. We all have somebody in our life like that- we just learn to deal with them. I also think Victoria just loves Frederik as a cousin or friend, someone to have fun with. And he and she would never do anything to hurt Mary or the two babies.
And many many more unlike this one, with Letizia&Felipe not smiling, not looking at each other, looking quite seriously.princess olga said:http://images2.image-data.com/images/1/lowres/24117/24117011.jpg
that's one very recent one from right before Sofia's birth.
Many man y m ore like this one, you're welcome to check the particular threads!
Who says I said you disagree that there wouldn't be any love between the two?princess olga said:Who says I disagree that there <wouldn't> be any love between the two?
To be under the eye of his great, but, dare I say it, seemingly-controlling cousin?princess olga said:No wonder Fred looks elevated - is he also a bit wee relieved to be gone even for a day from the duties of the kids and the eye of his great, but, dare I say it, seemingly-controlling, wife?
Tinika said:Well, I'll put my two cents in here since I did in the anniversary thread also. My sense, and it might very well be wrong, is that there is a bit of trouble. I'm not saying they're about to divorce, but something is odd about most of the photos of them together lately (and lack thereof), not to mention the recent rumours of Frederik's infidelity (can't give any specifics but I do remember rumblings about an American heiress last year). Those aren't things you hear, ever, about Haakon, Felipe, Willem-Alexander, or Philippe. And though they should of course be taken with a grain of salt, there is usually some truth in most rumours. Again, I'm not claiming to be sure of anything--but my gut tells me things aren't so good in the Danish marriage.
Couldn't have said it any better! My thoughts - written by youLena said:...seemed like two happy ppl...but not like two ppl happy with each other. The same at Christian´s first day at the Kiga.
In big moments they seem thrilled by the attention and play the show. No warmth, no closeness, no deep looks. At more ordinary things, there is even not the show. It´s simply not like Haakon and Mette Marit. With them there seems to be so much warmth, and deep respect for each other, they seem to have fun together.
But with Mary and Frederik, I simply can´t see that. ...
Two kids are for me in this position no proof for anything. It´s their main task to get a heir and a spare...and some couples like the distraction by a kid.
And of course one can also make love without love.
Eliza said:I think I read somewhere in one of the aussie magazine - New Idea or Woman's Day that Fred was getting too "close" to one of his ex's, i believe it's the pop singer? but again, what is the creditability of such a magazine?!?!?!