That's not what the press release says anyway. it says "recollections may vary"
And I don't think that means they don't care. I do think it means that they think some of what Meghan and Harry are saying isn't the truth.
I don't think it's either. I think both sides may remember differently. Studies have been done on memory. People's memories aren't precise snapshots and it doesn't mean either this person or Harry (whom it was said to) and Meghan (who was told what was said second hand) are lying. I think they are saying just what the palace statement said that both sides remember differently.
We don't know how many times it was said Harry (and Meghan). Was it only before they were married or did it include after Meghan was pregnant? The interview doesn't tell us clearly how many times this comment/type of comment was said as both as in the interview Harry and Meghan named different times.
This article is about the unreliability of human memory (without deliberate intent to lie):
https://www.healthline.com/health-n... notoriously unreliable,a bug; it's a feature.
"Human memory is notoriously unreliable, especially when it comes to details. Scientists have found that prompting an eyewitness to remember more can generate details that are outright false but that feel just as correct to the witness as actual memories.
In day-to-day life, this isn’t a bug; it’s a feature. We can’t possibly remember every tiny detail we see, but our memories would feel incomplete if there were big swaths of gray running through them. So the brain fills in the details as best it can, borrowing from other memories and the imagination in order to build what feels like a complete picture.
“A key rule about memory change over time is what we call fade-to-gist,” explained Dr. Charles Brainerd, a professor of human development at Cornell University, in an interview with Healthline. “That is, we lose the details of experience rapidly but retain our understanding of its gist much longer."