I applaud Chris for choosing not to have a title and for (with Maddy) finding a way to make their lives together. However, I don't applaud an individual for refusing to learn the native language of their partner, particularly when it's one that she and her family still use. It's a bit rude and disrespectful. Instead I applaud those who make an effort to learn such a language, especially as languages are hard and don't always come easy to people. In the case of Chris and Maddy I think it's even more important, because while he may not wish to be a part of that life, in marrying into the SRF he's guaranteeing that some part of his life will be connected to that life, and in not learning (or at least trying) he's disrespecting Maddy, her family, and her nation.