Two things about this post - first it's a pretty sweeping generalization to say that anyone claiming to behave with some dignity and decorum is lying. I don't claim to be perfect, have done many things I am not proud of and, under the influence of alcohol, danced on a few tables in my youth. But I still encounter people with the same attitude that you express when I tell them that I have never done any illegal drug. Never smoked a joint, never did coke, never popped pills. Just never saw the need. And most of the people I have ever known have done at least something. You may believe what you wish, but I encourage you to allow that it is possible for someone to be completely truthful is saying that they never got carried away. And it doesn't mean that they are boring or a prude. It is just their choice.
Secondly, Sofia is the one who chose to put herself into the position she finds herself. She made that choice to become a public figure (just like she hoped to do as she has previously stated) by dating a public figure. Much of the hoopla had died down after her underage topless pictures were publicized. But there were even more examples of her choices as evidenced by this latest batch of photos. Her choices and her character are being scrutinized in terms of their appropriateness to her relationship. Telling people to give her a "little rest" and be a "perfectly normal human being" is close to telling them to keep their opinions to themselves, or simply to shut up. Also, there are thousands of perfectly normal human beings who have been drinking in an establishment with poles and who haven't chosen to dance around them. Again, they made a different choice.
As Moninka stated in a previous post, she doesn't have similar pictures of herself and she is younger than Sofia. It's possible that Moninka has never partied as hard as Sofia (again a choice - right or wrong) and, as you stated, got "carried away" (also a choice). It is equally as likely that the dignity Moninka claims to have was part of the reason she made the choices she did.
OK, I don't want to start fighting here, but you seem to have misunderstood something here.
First, I won't ever raise an eyebrow and state that you're lying, when you tell me, that you never have done illegal drugs. You're right when you say you never saw the need to take them. I'm completely on your side with that, because I've never done them, too. So why are you even bring them up? I didn't do it in my posting nor did I ever read Sofia glorifying drugs, so why are they popping up in yours? I don't get it.
Secondly, I never said anyone is boring or prude because they aren't hardcore-partyqueens every weekend, but I do say, everyone of us did get carried away at least once in our life. And I don't mean just on parties. No-one here can tell me, she has never had a girls-day/-night/-weekend in her entire life, where you got carried away and goofed around, did silly things like tossing popcorn to that cute guy in front of you in the cinema or pushing a friend into the pool and laughing about them splashing around and swearing. That's what I call "getting carried away", too. Not just parties and alcohol and drugs. And I bet there's at least one funny picture of everyone of you existing that you would rather have destroid because you're embarrassed of the picture now even if you wasn't in the moment it was taken. Those moments I call "living your life to the fullest" and "getting carried away", just the same as partying all night. What's wrong with those moments? Why are they bad, when it comes to Sofia? Honestly, I don't get it. Isn't she allowed to life a normal life? Are you sure Moninka (for example, because you used her too) only laughed silently, behind a raised hand, while sitting well mannered in a white dress on her stool, while her friends goofed around?
Thirdly, what's so bad in being a public figure? There isn't a law that forbids you to be one. So why is anyone holding it against her that she wants to play in the spotlight? If someone doesn't like that, he/she can look away. I did that every time when someone I didn't like placed themselves into the spotlight. I just ignored him/her. Plain and simple. Makes your life a lot easier, but lets that certain someone room enough to live her/his own life like he/she thinks is best for him/her. So, you don't like Sofia? It's perfectly okay. You (and everyone who doesn't like her too) don't have to. But it's not okay to imply she's cheap or doesn't have a goal in life or doesn't have a good character or whatever. Because simply, we don't really know her.
Fourthly, partying hard isn't a proof that you don't have dignity and dancing around a pole (like someone after you wrote) doesn't mean you're just plain vulgar. We are not in the 1930s, 1950s or whatever (like the same someone said correctly). Today poledance is considered a sport, too, and goofing around pole doesn't mean you have hooker-ambitions.
Fifthly, I never wrote or meant "shut up", but just "give her a rest" once in a while and don't flog her every time she sticks her nose out of her privat four walls. Because it seams like she can't even breathe good enough for the most people around the Internet (not just here but on other sites, too) whenever she appears somewhere. She's bad when she has fun with CP, when she runs errands and when she does charity. No-one does ever give her the benefit of doubt. Why? Maybe because she isn't everybody's darling Emma?
Sixthly, this answer got way longer then I planned it to be. Again, I don't want to start fighting here. I just wanted to make myself clearer and at least giving Sofia the benefit of doubt even if I may be the only one. Someone has to and I grew up with the rules "Don't prejudice someone before you know him/her really" and "Give everyone a fair chance". And guess what? It brought me through life perfectly even if I myself "got carried away" and enjoyed life every now and then. It is possible to be a worthy person and have your embarrassing few moments. The world doesn't stop spinning if it happens.
Sevenths, flog me, yell at me or whatever else you want to do to me, but I'm just waiting for an engagement of Sofia and Carl Philip. To be honest, I will punch the air if that happens, because I think in a time where monarchies are questioned more and more it's way more important for their members to find a person who they really love than to find one who's worthy and equal. Because when the monarchy in Sweden (for example) would end, Carl Philip would have at least a wife he really loves and not one that suits a monarchy that wouldn't exist anymore. Regardless if this wife is called Emma Pernald, Sofia Hellqvist or something entirely else.
And now I just shut up, because this answer is really getting way to long.
Oh c'mon. She is a girl in her 20's who was on a party and maybe got a little tipsy. It's totally normal to get a little carried away on a party. No-one here can honestly say she has complete control over everything she says or does 24/7. Don't tell me you are all saints. 'Cause then you're lying. That's for sure. So give Sophia a little rest and let her be a perfectly normal human being once in a while.
