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Stefano never served in the Italian army, as he'd showed a medical certificate compiled by a surely very obliging doctor, where it was stating that Stefano couldn't possibly serve in the military as he was affected by impotence - at that time serving in the army was mandatory in Italy, while it's been a volunteer army since 2005, if I'm correct -.
This story hit the headlines in Italy when Charlotte was born, so somebody hastened to tell the press it was just a matter of "temporary impotence". His disease might probably have lasted as long as the whole period of the military service, that's one year.
Apparently Stefano acted as a gentleman when married to Caroline; however there's an ex girlfriend of his, an actress named Dalila Di Lazzaro that thinks differently.
In an interview appeared in last week's DIVA mag, she talked about her romance with Stefano, that she'd met before he got involved with Caroline.
She states that she was astonished when she heard he got engaged with Monaco Princess, because she knew he was a very shy guy. She recalls that when he went to Orvieto, where she was acting in a film, each time he met her he was sort of trembling and his hands perspired. Of course he loaded her with gifts. Her gay friends called him "her step-sister", as they said he sort of looked like her.
One day Dalila wanted to read some mail from her fans, and coincidentally she picked up one letter coming from a girl of Como (Stefano's birthplace). The girl wrote: " If I were you, I wouldn't let him even have a cup of coffee with you! Such a lady as you are doesn't deserve such a jerk!
Each time he comes back to Como, he goes on bragging of how fantastic a lover he is, especially when he sleeps with you!"
After that Dalila broke up with him, and didn't want to see him anymore. When asked why she did - after all he was looking so good - she always replied:" He wasn't much of a lover, actually!"