I think the moderation is temporary for new members and you should be able to post freely soon.
Thank you and I appreciate your feedback and criticism. I don't remember bullying articles and admittedly was too focused on Princess Kako's birthday photos. Yes, I have shared Japanese magazine articles in this thread and others. They are not my main or regular sources of information. I'm not Japanese and I rely on Google translations since becoming interested in the Imperial family. I am still learning Japan's media and hesitant to share everything I might find online. Bunshun has increased on my radar especially in the past year. I look forward to learning more from you and aim to do better. More posters and information are great!
The bullying and common-law marriage revelations are serious concerns. While I have empathy for the difficulties after Kei's father died and subsequent family tragedies (if true), Kayo Komuro's actions leave much to be desired. She was absent and reacted poorly to another parent's complaint. No parent wants to believe their child is a bully but she should have investigated first, apologized with Kei if true, and figured out corrective behavior. I realize that's easier said than done. Bullying is a huge problem. The sooner counseling/corrective measures are implemented the better. Tragedies and struggles can befall anyone. People do find acceptable resources and overcome hardships, not becoming bullies.
The fraud…yikes! I'm not familiar with common-law marriage. I thought a couple had to live together for some time? Not a requirement in Japan? The ex-fiance says "they were separate households at the time." However, it makes sense to end Kayo's survivor's pension if the relationship met the standard for common-law marriage.
I wonder about the legal ramifications of the recordings. Kei recording the ex-fiance, who later recorded the Komuros (was that secret?). All parties must consent to recording in California including private conversation or telephone call. Recording the Imperial family or IHA is extremely risky. That'd kill any chance of marriage. Since the ex-fiance already released his 2013 audio, Kei Komuro might as well release his 2012 recording.
Why does the ex-fiance no longer want repayment? He's been pursuing this matter for years on-again, off-again (is that true? did he and the Komuros really lose contact?). Is he just tired of it and simply reveals his experience with the Komuro family? Letting the public, Imperial family and IHA decide?
Earlier reports said Kayo offered to repay ~10,000 yen monthly but the ex-fiance said it was too low. Why didn't he accept? It's not much but repayment would have started in 2012. He knew Kayo's financial situation.
It seems the limbo will continue until one side (Princess Mako?) gives up… She's certainly set on Kei Komuro no matter the troubles. I agree the lump sum is problematic even if she returns/donates it. Leaving Imperial family via Chapter 2 Article 11 seems too scandalous despite an already scandalous situation.
Thank you and I appreciate your feedback and criticism. I don't remember bullying articles and admittedly was too focused on Princess Kako's birthday photos. Yes, I have shared Japanese magazine articles in this thread and others. They are not my main or regular sources of information. I'm not Japanese and I rely on Google translations since becoming interested in the Imperial family. I am still learning Japan's media and hesitant to share everything I might find online. Bunshun has increased on my radar especially in the past year. I look forward to learning more from you and aim to do better. More posters and information are great!
The bullying and common-law marriage revelations are serious concerns. While I have empathy for the difficulties after Kei's father died and subsequent family tragedies (if true), Kayo Komuro's actions leave much to be desired. She was absent and reacted poorly to another parent's complaint. No parent wants to believe their child is a bully but she should have investigated first, apologized with Kei if true, and figured out corrective behavior. I realize that's easier said than done. Bullying is a huge problem. The sooner counseling/corrective measures are implemented the better. Tragedies and struggles can befall anyone. People do find acceptable resources and overcome hardships, not becoming bullies.
The fraud…yikes! I'm not familiar with common-law marriage. I thought a couple had to live together for some time? Not a requirement in Japan? The ex-fiance says "they were separate households at the time." However, it makes sense to end Kayo's survivor's pension if the relationship met the standard for common-law marriage.
I wonder about the legal ramifications of the recordings. Kei recording the ex-fiance, who later recorded the Komuros (was that secret?). All parties must consent to recording in California including private conversation or telephone call. Recording the Imperial family or IHA is extremely risky. That'd kill any chance of marriage. Since the ex-fiance already released his 2013 audio, Kei Komuro might as well release his 2012 recording.
Why does the ex-fiance no longer want repayment? He's been pursuing this matter for years on-again, off-again (is that true? did he and the Komuros really lose contact?). Is he just tired of it and simply reveals his experience with the Komuro family? Letting the public, Imperial family and IHA decide?
Earlier reports said Kayo offered to repay ~10,000 yen monthly but the ex-fiance said it was too low. Why didn't he accept? It's not much but repayment would have started in 2012. He knew Kayo's financial situation.
It seems the limbo will continue until one side (Princess Mako?) gives up… She's certainly set on Kei Komuro no matter the troubles. I agree the lump sum is problematic even if she returns/donates it. Leaving Imperial family via Chapter 2 Article 11 seems too scandalous despite an already scandalous situation.
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