I'm an America just trying to understand. I respect them for what they have contributed, but do you guys really buy into the fact that they are "royal" and above the every day person? Because across the pond we look at it like it just seems you keep them around for tourist purposes, and I feel bad that you waste your already high taxes on supporting a bunch of people who don't really do anything and live boughie lives. You can have regular citizens contribute to charities, you don't need to pay a prince, out of the money you could contribute to your own family, to do that.
You are trying to have a rational view of something that is basically irrational.
It's akin to question people's religion, because the monarchy is such an integral part of the history, culture and sense of belonging in many countries, that abolishing it, is akin to closing down churches.
You can present a perfectly rational argument that churches are a waste of taxpayer money, and really not needed. - The first Protestants did that. You will hear a howl of protests and there will be a vacuum that needs to be filled.
Look at republics like France, Austria, Russia. - All of them pride themselves of having been monarchies and to some extent they have each recreated the royal spectacle.
The monarchy is a national rallying point to me. It's a integrated part of the history of my country, of my culture and who I am. It's one of my anchors in a sometimes changing and troubled world. - And that's why I used churches as an example.
The royals are living national symbols. They are living permanent representatives of my country and therefore me. They are living role models and I expect them to be living role models.
In return I will bow to them, and to considerable extent elevate them. Not because I have to, but because I want to.
You salute the rank, not the man.
With a royal, you get to know the person, for good or bad. You get to know their flaws and strengths. You watch them grow up and improve - sometimes they let you down - and you watch them try to fill the role they have been given to the best of their abilities. Its like watching myself, my children, my parents. In that way they personify me and I can relate to them.
With an elected president, some, sometimes myself, will not have voted for that person.
The difference between electing a (representative) president and having a monarch, is to me, the difference between a popularity contest and a maturing process. Both can be successful, both can fail.
I'm proud of my country. I'm proud of my culture and my history. I'm also proud of my royal family. - Sometimes with good reason. Sometimes I honestly have little to be proud of...
But it's a part of me.
I hope I was able to illustrate a little what the irrational concept of royalty means.