Unfortunately Suria, for many men in the Middle East, giving birth to a male baby IS the only important thing. Sad, but true.
On another note, Prince Ali would have been king now had Alia not died so early. Ali spent several crucial years without a mother while King Hussein was stressed out in the post camp david period while the Americans were pushing him to join camp david. Furthermore, the invasion of Lebanon was imminent and the King was worried about Jordan getting sucked into a war. Thus, Prince Ali was the most ignored prince.
And what about Queen Noor? When Queen Noor (then Elizbeth Al-Halabi) visited the palace for the first time, and due to the similarity in the hair color between Noor and Alia, it is said that Ali and Haya ran towards her screaming "mama, mama...". King Hussein was deeply moved by this but Queen Noor was not. She never connected or showed affection to Ali.
As a consequence of all the factors above, Prince Ali has low self-esteem and never graduated from college. Otherwise, I am of the opinion that he would have been King NOW.
It was the Circassian guards at the palace who actually paid attention to Ali, they played with him, taught him their language and Circassian dancing and kept him out of trouble. Had it not been for them, he would have been a criminal by now. That's why he likes Circassians so much, it has nothing to do with his mother having Circassian roots, I'm not even sure this is true.