emily62_1 said:
I assume QN was not at her son's wedding reception, unbelievable ! She was not present at the nikkah, too- I'm so sorry for her, it must be painful, I'm a mum and would lose my mind if my son treated me like that,- though, IMHO, Hashim got so religious that, maybe, he thinks his own mum , as a converted to Islam, does not suit his new image, well, let me tell u, as I look at new pix by hashim, that brings me a chill, he's changed, yet, he attended US schools in US for 8 years, plus 4 at US Uni- I love the moderate way Hamzah is a Muslim, Hashim.... I think he's gone too faR- He did not even invite his own 2 sis - am I right ? So, I guess from the pix- hope i'm wrong- maybe, well, in my country, no guy would ever get engaged if his/her parents were not present, let alone not having the mother at the wedding- ........- it's as he wants to shove his own family off ,so J ppl, and KA, can forget he has got Swedish and Scottish roots, too- PS- he looks very close to KA, more than his mother or his full brother, - I think we can't pretend to be some1 else, and make ppl to believe we are , what's he up to ???????????????????''
Of course, if he chose the bride as he did love her, I wish them all the best- but ,well, let's not forget, that KH was a great leader, not only for his own country, but also for Western World, even though he had married 2 western women.....
Hi Emily,
I hope your well & I hope your kids are doing great too ...
Well, as for Nikkah, its not really a ceremony, its just the men of the family meeting up, that's how it usually works, the wedding ceremony, on the other hand, is celebrated. I dont mean this in an offensive way ofcourse, but I honestly was very shocked how you jumped into accusations like that, I am sure QN loves hamzah dearly, and he loves her back, without a doubt. Its unfair to throw assumptions like that, think of it this way, how would you feel if someone said or acted that way towards you? I am not trying to sound mean but rather, what I am trying to say is, their wedding was their day, they chose to spend it surrounded by his and her immediate family, so ... All the best to them, dont they atleast have that right? I say, ofcourse they do, to be honest, I would have done the same if I were in that position, most people would rather have an intimate wedding ceremony surounded by family and friends ...
You stated that his mother and sisters weren't there? some readers may take it for the truth. I assure you, she and her daughters were there. Hashim is well brought up, so there is no way he would do that, and lets just say, IF he was (which I he isn't), I know Fahda would never agree to have a wedding unless her mother-in-law and new sisters were there, and another thing, the wedding was held in Jordan. If he thats how it was, why wouldn't they have the wedding in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, I mean thats where all of Fahada's family resides, right? Instead, they had it in Jordan and only immediate family members of Fahad's side were able to make it as it was a period of school exams and it was held on a saturday (which is not a holiday in KSA) ...
I am sorry but you stated that Hamzah is more balanced religion-wise? you dont think that is a bit unfair? I am sure they are both equally balanced, besides, if were being precise here, then it should be noted that the Quran stated that parents must be treated with nothing but upmost respect... Trust me, It was just a private ceremony. The lunch in was an all men event. That is why there are no pictures of queen noor nor her daughters there. I can see how you might have thought she wasn't there so I can tell where your coming from, and I dont blame you for thinking that, but its really unfair for you to jump into conclusions like that and point your finger at him that way and to say what you said, I would be very hurt if someone said that about me as I am sure you would be too, especially when what was said (as it is in this situation) isn't based on facts but rather, assumptions.
P.S (Don't get me wrong, I know your a very nice person from all your past quotes, I just think that the last one was out of charecter, as it is not like you to jump into conclusions, if I sounded rude in anyway, then trust me, its just cus its hard to tell what tone of voice a person is indending to use, If anything I am just confused because of what you said, and wondering why you said it that way, but in no way meaning or intending to sound harsh).
T.C Emily
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God Bless
Moi
