I'm a new royal watcher. I always knew basic stuff about the British royal family- names and stuff- and I would probably be able to identify a picture of Kate Middleton. I remember the wedding of Harry and Meghan playing on my TV. I wasn't super interested.
The day I became a royal watcher was the day Queen Elizabeth II died.
I was completely shocked, it just didn't feel real. I was sad but also really excited at the prospect of a new King and Queen. I've always been into history and stuff, so I knew a bit about how royal titles worked. I remember going onto Camilla's wikipedia page and being confused over why it said "Queen Consort" (consort is a job description, not a title!). On the "talk" page everyone was hardcore fighting about her title. The article got locked after persistent "editing wars" almost crashed the site. I was incredibly annoyed at the fact that the article got locked with the title "Camilla, Queen consort."
One of the first pictures I saw of the new King Charles and Queen Camilla was them wearing black, looking at the flowers people had left in memory of Elizabeth. His hand was on her back. I was still wrapping my head around the whole thing.
It was kind of surreal. This sounds stupid but I kept whispering their names under my breath to try to get used to the new titles. I liked saying Queen Camilla and Princess Kate.
Anyway the next day I was looking at pictures of Charles and Camilla on Pinterest. Immediately noticed how they always seemed to be laughing together. I love cute couples so that made me happy. But in the comments tons of people with terrible grammar were calling Camilla nasty names and saying she wasn't the real Queen, just the consort. Despite knowing literally nothing about Camilla, I immediately jumped to her defense because I detest internet trolls, bad grammar, and incorrect statements. Also people were calling her ugly and I don't think that's ever a valid criticism of anyone. It really pissed me off.
I decided I should back up my arguments with some actual facts so I looked her up and started reading about her. I love drama so I was intrigued with all the scandals. I learned about the affairs and the whole Diana fiasco. I think what stood out to me most was the fact that Charles fell in love with Camilla 50 years ago, they broke up, lots of drama happened, and then they finally got married. I'm hopelessly romantic and couldn't possibly hate anyone for something that could have been the plot of a TV drama. Anyway I did some more reading and realized lots of people were super biased in Diana's favor and thought Charles was the bad guy. (I don't want to get into it right now but Charles and Diana were honestly just a terrible match and something was bound to happen.)
The thing people seemed to be the angriest about, though, wasn't that Diana had been treated badly. They were angry that Charles left a hot young woman for a frumpy lady his own age. They were angry that he loved her and angry that they got their happy ending.
Personally, I thought it was romantic.
I can't remember when I went from "I like Charles and Camilla, they're cool" to where I am now (I'm sitting under a collage of vintage pictures of Camilla, reading Camilla's great aunt's memoir while typing about why I love the royal family) but I remember looking at a fan blog about her and thinking "wow this woman is genuinely awesome."
I admire Camilla because she's so incredibly resilient after getting so much hate. I love her because she's a regular, down to earth woman who just wanted to become a country housewife and wound up as the Queen of England.
I also love Charles. I've read tons about him. Through learning about Charles, I learned about the whole British Royal family.
I just love how they're all just people like us, with flaws and eccentricities, who support charities and wear fancy clothes. I love that they live a completely different lifestyle from us.
You can learn a lot from these people. Charles taught me determination. Camilla taught me resilience. Anne taught me bravery. Elizabeth taught me hard work. The Queen Mum taught me compassion. Catherine taught me dignity.
Anyways. That's how I got interested in royalty.