Meghan's background is totally about Me, Myself & I, the way Hollywood works, which was perfectly fine until she married a BRF prince. But this is not the royal way and they or whoever is advising them should shift focus or it will only get worse. The British people are not a Hollywood audience and royal duty is about the common man on the street first, or at least give the impression that it is.
Right now, they are not modernizing but celebritzing the monarchy, what will be its downfall in the very long run.
I've wondered for a long time about where the argument actually lies between the royals and the public anyway. No one is holding a gun to the royal family's head demanding that they be there. If they want privacy and find it all so awful I'm sure that no one in the country would insist that the whole thing continue. In this day and age it's all rather silly anyway to expect one single family to be shoehorned into a certain way of life without choice. I enjoy watching them like many other people but to look at a 6 year old child ie George and tell that child that he HAS to be the future head of state that is obviously unfair both to him and to other people in the country who would rather have a democratically elected one. I feel in the past the royal family didn't kick out at being who they were in the way the younger members do now. The Queen's generation and her parents, aunts and uncles accepted that they traded in certain aspects of their private lives in exchange for the enormous privilege they enjoyed. They didn't go around planting bushes and trees everywhere and hiding the name's of godparents etc because they knew that giving the public access to these things was part if what a royal family is. Now, I'm not criticising those who do these things but it has got to a point where anything the public gets to know about comes across as grudged so I would suggest that if the younger members really don't like it all that much then we should perhaps end the whole set up. They can then go on to have the lives they would prefer and all the constant drama can stop once and for all.