Any facet that shows Diana in a less than perfect light is usually followed by accusations that it is all Charles fault, or Camilla's fault or both Charles and Camilla's fault and then we must not forget that from the get go it was all Charles, or the Duke of Edinborough fault and of course, one must not forget The Queen's fault and even the Queen Mother get's the occasional look in, all of whom failed Diana by both the sins of commission and omission.
But then we are reminded again of the sins of her father, her mother, her stepfather, her brother, her sisters, etc. and then of course there is the eating disorder, and the list never ends except for those reading these forums who are left with a portrait of a sad, lonely, neglected, child/woman, forever to be remembered as the ultimate victim instead of the loving mother and strong, opinionated, self-confident woman she grew into.