Charlotte1
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Emily said:Charlotte, thank you for the information on the doctor. How did you find out that it was her mother who helped with the search?
From the book on Masako by Ben Hills, which by the way is a good book to have, it will be available on Amazon after christmas.
I have read the book and enjoyed it. Personally I don’t think it’s possible to make comments about the Japanese Imperial Family without some knowledge of Japanese society and traditions, which is best discovered by living it firsthand. Ben Hills is an investigative journalist who actually lived in Japan for 3 years, is married to a Japanese woman and is a regular visitor to Japan. The book doesn’t just talk about Masako and what she’s been through but actually puts it in a Japanese societal context. He examines all the gossip and innuendo as well as actually speaking to people who know or knew Masako and Naruhito, the book is heavy on named (and credible sources) and very light on “sources say” “ friends of”.
I’ve read one review of the book where the reviewer bemoans the somewhat detached style of the writing. It’s exactly what I thought was great, it’s written like a piece of investigative journalism rather than a piece of emotive smush. There’s no emotive language, no metaphorical hand wringing of ‘poor Masako”. Although there is some of that annoyingly in the promotional material going with the book as well as complete errors. The press reported that the book stated that Naruhito and Masako considered leaving the Imperial Family, this is totally false. What is actually written in the book is that there was magazine speculation that they wanted to leave but it was something that wasn’t likely or true.
The most interesting thing that I found out was that the most common image that we westerners have of Masako, that is she was a modern woman, ‘westernized’ due to her spending time living outside of Japan, this isn’t actually the case. Masako in reality was very much the traditional, good, studious Japanese female. Although she spent part of her early childhood in Russia and the US, her parents maintained a totally Japanese household, they only spoke Japanese at home, ate Japanese food and mixed with the Japanese community. At the age of 8 when Masako returned to Japan she attended a strict ( and exclusive) catholic private girls’ school, which had been attended by her mother and grandmother before her. At the age of 16 she moved to the US and attended an American High school, she was shocked by the dating between students and the drug taking. At her high school prom, she and another Asian female student were so embarrassed by the fact that couples were kissing on the dance floor that they spent the night in the auditorium watching movies. Masako studied hard, didn’t date and made no mark on her school at all, the assistant principal at the time later said that there are certain students who pass through and you can not remember them. She had to attend an American university as having spent 2 years out of the Japanese school system she would not have been able to pass the entrance exams to a good Japanese university. Being studious she was accepted into Harvard, she lived in a “bookish” dorm. She was chairman of the Harvard Japan society and spent most of her time studying. She didn’t date but socialised with a group of people. During her summer holidays she spent time living with host families in France to improve her French and Germany to improve her German. Having graduated with a degree in economics from Harvard she was offered jobs in the US but she chose to return to Japan. There she lived at home with her parents until she was married. Even when she studied in the UK she actually lived with a family rather than her own apartment.
Kiko who is often referred to as the traditional one is actually the more modern princess. Kiko also lived outside of Japan as a child, she did attend a Japanese university but unlike Masako she did date. Kiko ended up marrying her university boyfriend Prince Akishino. Kiko also broke away from the traditional wife role by the fact that she continued at university after her marriage and even after the birth of her 2 daughters, she completed the first part of her PhD in Psychology. Unusual in a country where a woman as soon as she’s married doesn’t work or continue with her education.
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