Relationship of crown couple/Prince&Princess Akishino
Lenora has asked in the „Succession Issues“-thread about
the true relationship of two daughters-in-law of the Emperor,of Princess Masako and Kiko, if they get along well.
As an answer to this is mainly based on speculation I do not think that this matter deserves a thread of its own. I´ll explain below why I decided to put it here. But if the mods should feel that this should better be somewhere else, please feel free to move it.
I remember having repeatedly read that the two princesses „do not get along well“ (if I come across it next time, I´ll post a link) but none of the authors have ever explained how they´ve come to know. (And the fact that I´ve repeatedly read it is not necessarily meaningful – maybe one copied it from the other...
) Of course, the princesses are supposed to be rivals in the competition of „who produces a male heir to the Japanese throne“ (which Kiko „won“) but nobody has ever been able to ascertain if the crown princess has felt grieved or rather relieved by the fact that her sister-in-law had taken the burden off her shoulders, so to speak. As for Kiko, she may have had lots of reasons for bearing Hisahito but I doubt that the wish to spite Masako has played much of a part for her, if at all. (I suppose that she wanted to please her husband and her parents-in-law, in the first place.) It is clear though that they are not intimate friends. If they´d regularly meet, just the two of them, to have tea and chat,
I am sure we´d know that. But I, for one, have never heard of an incident that proved a positive dislike between the two. The one hard fact that we do have is that their husbands did not seem the best of friends lately. This became shockingly clear to the public in 2004 when Prince Akishino criticized his elder brother for having defended his wife against the IHA. (And this is why I have put the answer to Lenora´s question into this thread: that was basically the start of criticisms of the crown prince and princess.)
You may want to take a look at
this blog where Masako and Kiko are compared or at
this that deals with the rift between the brothers. (In both cases, just ignore the first part that deals with the journey - unless you might happen to be interested.)
I´d like to add that I do not have the impression that the brothers have been getting along much better lately. It raised a lot of attention when Prince Akishino said last year when he turned 45 that he and his older brother had discussed the future of the royal family many times, adding ‘‘We must always think how we should exist to respond to the demands of the times.’’ So when the crown prince´s birthday arrived in February he was asked to comment.
Link I will quote the question as well as the answer in full length as to give you an opportunity to take a look of your own at it.
Question 5:
You said in last year's press conference, "While learning various things from the past, I would like to pursue the ideal role of the Imperial Family in the future." His Imperial Highness Prince Akishino also stated in the press conference on the occasion of his birthday last year that you have discussed the issue with him on several occasions. Since Her Imperial Highness Crown Princess Masako has been in recuperation, Your Imperial Highness has been attending a number of official duties by yourself, including visits to local regions. Please tell us, specifically, the vision of the Imperial Family in the future that you are pursuing with His Imperial Highness Prince Akishino, including the future role of Your Imperial Highness and Her Imperial Highness the Crown Princess in the official duties.
Answer 5:
Previously, I said that as new ideas about the needs for official duties naturally emerge in accordance with the changing times, it is important to consider official duties in such a way as to respond to new social needs, in accordance with these changes. That belief has not changed. Last year, I indicated water issues, environmental issues, and affairs concerning children and the elderly as areas of interest. But I am not limiting myself to these areas. I believe there will be social needs for new official duties in other areas as well, which I would like to deal with in a sincere manner.
With Prince Akishino, there are a number of occasions where there are opportunities to discuss various issues, and I intend to do so in the future as well.
Now if one wants to gather some meaning from anything a member of the IF says in public one has to be aware that they may spend a whole press conference without saying anything that seems to be at all remarkable or original. One could even say that it is that what usually happens...
And that is not because they are stupid or dull (to the contrary, IMO
) but because they are so narrowly restricted in what they might say. (As you may have read in the blog, “They cannot say they like apples, because if they did, what would the orange growers say?”)
In order to understand what they want to say, one has to be aware that there are a lot of things that they cannot say, may they ever be so true. I usually compare what they do say to what they could have said. In this case: the crown prince could never have answered (even if there should be some truth in it): „I have never had a meaningful conversation with my brother on the role of the imperial family and I do not see why I should. My brother may have reasons of his own for pretending that I did.“
What he COULD have said instead would be, for example:
- „I have had indeed various discussions on the subject with my brother and was pleased to find that our opinions have much in common.“
- „I have had indeed various discussions on the subject with my brother and found his opinions quite interesting.“
- „I have had indeed various discussions on the subject with my brother and intend to have more in the future.“
- „I have discussed various issues with my brother, among them the role of the imperial family...“
- „I have discussed various issues with my brother...“
But what he, in fact, tells us, is that there were OPPORTUNITIES to discuss various issues, and we can only gather from the „as well“ in the second part of the sentence that the brothers have, in fact, made use of these opportunities (well, once, maybe...
). While the crown prince takes great pains in letting us know that the question of new official duties is an issue that he has very much at heart (he even returns to the subject later in the press conference) he obviously does his very best to keep his brother out of it. He does not even so much as confirm that the role of the imperial family has actually been amongst those „various issues“ (that could have been the wheather, the blooming of the cherry trees, the health of the family etc) that the brothers have discussed (or did not discuss but had the opportunity to do so...
)
IMO, it is absolutely impossible to express a lack of enthusiasm concerning a discussion with his brother on the monarchy more clearly than the crown prince does here, without being downright impolite. And this is why I think that the brothers are, still, not the best of friends, and as loyal wives, Princesses Masako and Kiko probably support their husbands.