LadyAnya
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I'd say we have another hour, maybe two. Hopefully not too much longer to go
I've heard of women in the US having mothers in the delivery room but that's still the exception. I know I didn't want anyone but my husband there!
I think you can have whoever you want, but usually just your husband. That also includes your scans, baby classes and everything else that goes with having a baby.
She may have been admitted for PROM, which I had, when your water breaks, no contractions and you go to the hospital after a while till they start. Most docs and hospitals have a 24 hour limit for that senario which would lengthen things. Hope it's just an average first baby
Love Prince Charles' comment, he often nails it
I was certainly on the phone to my mom before my husband could call his grandparents! Carole might not be in the delivery room, but she could easily be waiting nearby. Kate is her baby, and she will be uneasy until she knows the 'ordeal' is over. Don't think HM would object to that- after all, a bunch of docs, nurses, technicians, orderlies, housekeepers, etc, will undoubtedly know before HM, so surely Catherine's parents can be informed without stepping on the Queen's toes. I understand the protocol of the Queen being told 'first', but that is somewhat flexible.
That how it is in the U.S. also.
I wouldn't want a crowd. Just me, the doctor, a nurse if necessary, and the father of the child, if he's alive/still with me. If the father is not in the picture any longer, for whatever reason, then I'd want my mother or my sister, but only then. Otherwise, the less people I have standing around the bed staring at me while I'm in excruciating pain, the better.
That's my outlook on things. The less people seeing me in pain, screaming, pushing and probably having a meltdown, the better.
It's such an intensely personal and exposing thing anyway; I mean, you're laid up in bed, your feet are in stirrups, and everyone's just standing around gawking at you. One thing I absolutely would NOT want is for the birth to be recorded. Oh hell no. You're not sticking a camera in my face, or anywhere else, while I'm trying to push out a baby. You can record after the birth, and take all the pictures you like then.
72 hours! That's insane. Your friend must be shattered back then. Hope that's not the same thing for Kate....
Agreed. Nothing against them but I think it's more appropriate for the Queen to knows first apart from the medical staff and the new parents
It must be awkward for Carol as she IS The Duchesses mother!
Both families will be informed pretty much at the sametime.
I wouldn't want a crowd. Just me, the doctor, a nurse if necessary, and the father of the child, if he's alive/still with me. If the father is not in the picture any longer, for whatever reason, then I'd want my mother or my sister, but only then. Otherwise, the less people I have standing around the bed staring at me while I'm in excruciating pain, the better.
I've been in York today and I managed to see and say Hello to The Prince of Wales, this was early this morning after Catherine was admitted but you could clearly tell he was excited from his manner.
Lumutqueen, how exciting.I've been in York today and I managed to see and say Hello to The Prince of Wales, this was early this morning after Catherine was admitted but you could clearly tell he was excited from his manner.