Exactly. Charlotte is an independent woman in her 30´s and if she doesn´t want to do the whole marriage before babies thing, that is her decision and no one else´s.
Also, I hate this narrative that Charlotte would be bad for Dimitri´s career? How on earth would it be harmful for him to be connected to the granddaughter of Grace Kelly, a member of the Princely Family of Monaco, well-connected, wealthy and beautiful?! Dimitri is responsible for his career, not she. It's as if to suggest that whatever happens to him, will be blamed on her. We're not in the 60's anymore, please.