But there has only been one evening gala event since the wedding that Meghan has worn a long pair of earrings, when she wore the borrowed diamond earrings. She could hardly have worn the dangling emerald and diamond earrings at a day time event.
Just so that we are clear, I am not arguing that emeralds are important to her, just that there does not appear to be any evidence that she dislikes them!
That whole article about the tiara is built on emphasis that she wants the emeralds THAT bad. She might not dislike them, but she certainly doesn't have that much preference for them to get into a tiff about it. She could've easily worn them for her wedding reception if she really wanted to. Or most of the time that she's worn the Birks Snowstorm earrings.