I was not aware that Charles, Harry and/or William have ever discussed what transpired among the three of them the night Diana died. I think Harry has stated that he understood that it was a difficult for Charles to tell them.
Both Charles and Diana were imperfect parents (I don't claim perfection either). Diana leaned too much on William during the divorce and was too public in her complaints about their father. Charles was too worried that they wouldn't like him if he provided unpopular guidance when they were in their teens.
For the most part, both men are doing well. William has a beautiful family, he works hard and wants to help others. People may not like the path Harry has taken but, by all accounts, he is not mean spirited or abusive, he is a devoted family man, and he is also interested in helping others. He's not perfect, none of us are.
As for Harry he and Meghan wanted a different way of life for a variety of reasons. He also is not the first one in the family to work on his own business. His Uncle Edward ran his own production company.
I think it is hard to judge the true state of their relationship given the current crisis. None of us knows whether Harry and Meghan would have spent time in the UK - or were planning to go over for Christmas. I am hoping that the undeniable rift has healed and that the brothers and their families develop a stronger loving relationship.
To be fair,Charles admitted to his biographer he preferred another woman to his sons' mother and never loved her. And he told the world that he was involved with Camilla, forcing the PB divorce. So he contributed "drama" as well.That certainly would be not a good thing for his sons. And I think Diana's "leaning" on William has been overstated. Diana to be fair said that she told her sons that she "Papa" love each other but cannot live together anymore During her last year she and charles appeared cordial when they accompanied william to his confirmation. they even posed for pictures together with William and Harry. Diana did lean more on her friends like rosa Monckton and her true friends were there for her. she could certainly not talk to young william the same way she would talk to her friends. william was also away at school much of the time.
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