She, unlike her cousins Camille,Pauline and Jazmin and sister Alexandra,couldn't fit in with "normal" people-they wouldn't feel comfortable around her, and she around them...it'd be a no-win situation.
As much as I like Charlotte, i think you are both right. She says she is no socialite, or doesn't want to be recognized like one, but she is.
Of the Casiraghis, i think the only one that fits in a "normal" crowd is Andrea. Pierre and Charlotte look to much of "jetsetters", "eurotrash". Andrea looks more "normal". IMHO.
That's what i like about him, and Alexandra too. She is so lovely, i can perfectly see her hanging out with people outside that exclusive circle.
You know? I think that Charlotte did have a chance to be normal a few years ago.
Of course it depends on what you consider to be "normal" , because no matter what she would always had been rich and well-conected. But they are many wealthy people from privileged backgrounds that lead "normal" lives in the sense that they don't seem disconected from real life and can fit anywhere, even if they have a lot of money for travelling, live in wonderful houses, own eexpensive things, etc.
I'm not sure about her childhood in Saint Rémy. It certainly felt "normal" but sometimes I have the feeling that everything was a game for Caroline. Like a little girl playing houses and dolls. I remember a winter coat Charlotte used to wear when she was around 8. It was fun because it was obviously too big for her, and it reminded me of something that happens in most middle-class families: you have an 8 year girl and you buy her a coat in october and you buy it bigger than the child because you know she will outgrow it, and it's expensive and you want her to use it for a couple of years.
But Charlotte in her big coat at the Monaco National Day was a weird thing to see. You don't need to dress your children up in Chanel clothes, but buying such a big coat, and using it at a national event as if you couldn't afford a new one next year...? to me it looks like "pretending" and playing at been "middle-class" not like something real.
I rather think that Charlotte had a chance to be normal during Ernst years, when she was living in Fontainebleau. She was a privileged student, of course. But a privileged normal student.
Take Valentine. She comes from a wealthy family, she moves in the parisian "grand monde" (high society), she's got an old name, her family owns a magnificent hôtel... she is wealthy and privileged, and yet she is normal, she could fit everywhere, she seems much more down to earth than Charlotte, she takes horse-riding much more seriously, works in something she finds passionating.
Take Felix. He is not as rich and famous as Charlotte and her familiy, but he undoubtley is a privileged kid. He is rich, his mother is a reputed art collector... He could have taken profit from his relationship with Charlotte, and he probably got a lot of invitations to fashion shows etc when they were together and after they split up. And yet, he is normal, he studies hard, and leads a normal life.
For a while Charlotte seemed to belong with that kind of people. People with real interests in life, who can take a private flight one day and a public bus next day. But she missed the chance (and I use the word "missed" because I really think it's a pity. Now she seems to inhabit an artificial cristal world and being ages away from what real life is, and to be missing so many "real" things...)
Maybe that's whay she had so much charm during her student years, and why she looked special. Because she was beautiful and privileged but at the same time she was natural and real.
Imo, the turning point was the ENS exam. Of course I have no proof and it's just a personal opinon but it feels as if after making such an effort to get in and failing, she thought: "wait! why am I working so hard when all I need is a phone call from my mom and I'll get an intership whenever I want? Alex can get me a job at The Independent! I can phone my mother's friends and arrange an eco-fashion magazine! Horses? Why working hard if Rozier can get me into de GCT?" And suddenly she wanted all to be quick and shiny and she only wanted to rub shoulders with the top of the top! Of course everything looks fake (because it's fake) and she looks disconected with real life, and pretentious and a bit silly, living inside her bubble and pretending to be somethings she is not...