It's a peculiar thing this Diana business. I always vow I will not engage. Inevitably do
and the usual ad hominem start. Why is that? Curious. Unbalanced view? Hmmm.....at no time have I talked about Diana as a person, nor (I believe) denigrated her. I have been solely concerned (in this context) with her 'global impact' and whether we will see a replication. I hope not, but we might, because history does repeat as we know. JMO.
The issue of the thread is will there be another like Diana. Was Diana sexy? I think she was, that could be replicated. Was she charismatic? For sure, and that could be replicated. Was she a good person, did she mean well in her public persona, and do good work within the context of her circumspect life? I think one can give her all that, and that could be replicated. I am not debating Diana as a personal event in the individual lives of her fans who loved her. For a variety of reasons she riveted the imagination of many. It was unique or seemed unique at the time for sure though I'm sure there are examples in history of similar fascinations. But the gestalt that was Diana as an event on the world stage is far more than just her personal impact on individual fans.
As much as Diana was all those good and pleasant things, Diana was also a polarizing, and in many ways destructive, force in the public arena, regarding her marriage and the institution she married into. I am sorry if this causes distress but it's there in the record, and my hope for the sake of everyone is that the destructiveness not ever be repeated with anyone else. I think that's reasonable. Is it possible that it will be repeated? Might be, one day. But that 'might' has more to do with human nature, I think, than anything unique to Diana.
Well, there we will have to differ, Lady Nimue, as I saw Diana several times in the flesh in the 1980s and 1990s, and I was an adult. It was a privilege.
I do not dispute your sense of privilege. We are not differing.
As a result of that personal touch he has had good memories of Diana for over thirty years. He can remember everything about her from that short time in Victoria. How she spoke, how she looked, her laugh, (as can I.) Charles? He never spoke to any of the police ever.
Here you demonstrate the odd nature of the loyalty: Diana impacts you, and at once Charles must be denigrated. What is that about? That is part of Diana's legacy: this permission given to hate Charles. It's odd.
My memory is perfectly fine, actually, and I don't appreciate being told it must be faulty. And if I see Diana through a gauzy glow' better that than than unrelenting bile, bias and dislike of a woman who did an enormous amount of good in the world.
I apologize if I offended. Truly. Yet the facts are the facts. The tabloids were screaming headlines that were cringeworthy: a Princess of Wales stalking a married man? Under threat of arrest? That's the other side of this story and I hope there is no repeating it. Don't you agree? That's not 'bile, bias, and dislike', that's the facts. That's what was going on, while the public was whipped up into a frenzied froth of animus towards the BRF and Charles in particular. Do you not agree that that took place?
Did she do an
enormous amount of good in the world? No. She was not a mover or shaker. She had some good moments for sure (AIDS, Landmines) but there was not a lot of substance or depth. It was all photo-ops and drama as I recall. Had she lived perhaps that all would have changed. We'll never know.
P.S. Most everyone we discuss on TRF is dead. Discussing historical events means dead people will be analyzed. Not sure what the dead comment is suppose to mean. The living royals get subjected to appalling negativity. How that is better confounds me.
Enough! I'm outa here. It's never pleasant when the posting gets fervid and personal.