Committed to the world´s peace and happiness
Well, you go, gi..s!
(Well, DO not you think it a BIT silly that I am even censured when I write g..ls? And, on the other hand, I AM able to write "boys" - is this a sort of secret antifeminism?
) I am glad to see the discussion, and as I already mentioned in "A god becomes human": when talking about this issue it seems to be next to impossible NOT to get into occupying very polarized positions. Of course, we never have all the information, and I cannot say anything concerning this restaurant visit as it is not mentioned in the book. (The only thing I would like to add is that it would be the understatement of the year to say that it was just a sort of willfulness on the part of Masako to not publish the pregnancy – not only she but also the crown prince and the executives on duty were fully aware what a medial uproar would be caused by these news – and when the story did come out they turned out to have been even more correct in their fears than they could have wished...) But, in my opinion, if there is one thing that the story of the imperial conflict teaches it is that it is better to try and continue talking, expressing your own opinion and nevertheless still trying to understand the other. Then there is, at least, still a chance for peace. Now, let´s go on with the next part:
As I said, it is a bit tricky to describe the crown prince´s view of the things, and that is because he neither has the opportunity to publicly explain it in detail nor to act upon it. So, crown prince and crown princess have even been accused of constantly complaining without ever positively declaring what they want. But this is not true. Although they can – for obvious reasons – not publish their plans they have, as a friend of Masako has told Fritz and Kobayashi, already explained their visions, not in every detail, but clearly, to the executives on duty. Several times Masako and Naruhito tried to initiate certain activities, informed the executives of their general ideas and asked for suggestions how they could be put into practice, and again and again, they were rejected or ignored. (Fritz and Kobayashi do not leave a doubt that although "technically" speaking, they were blocked by executives of the IHA this could never have been done without the consent or even the special request of the emperor and empress.)
And although Naruhito and Masako never got an opportunity to publicly explain their vision it is, according to Fritz and Kobayashi, not so difficult to guess the general tendency of their ideas: It is known that the crown prince was very much impressed by the British monarchy. And there is a striking difference between the activities of the English and the Japanese royals: although they both attend certain public events the Japanese royals are more or less "just decoration" while the English royals purposefully support those events and activities that in their opinion are especially useful and helpful for their people. The most remarkable difference is that the English royals commit themselves to a broad variety of charity institutions and to activities of social impact whereas the Japanese royals usually keep away from social or charitable issues. The Japanese empress is president of the Red Cross, but that´s it for the Japanese royals whereas the English queen serves as a lady patron for more than 650 charity organizations. Prince Charles is very interested in ecological farming, modern architecture, protection of the environment, education and health care and supports related activities wherever it is in his power. Of course, the British royals do not do "hard" politics – they are no more allowed to do that than the Japanese - but they actively and purposefully choose and support those initiatives and activities that in their opinion are the most important for the welfare of their people and the world.
And we know that Masako´s interest takes the same direction. Already in 1997, she said in a press conference: "I want to help people in difficult social circumstances to get hope for the future and to gather fresh life force. Especially, I want to take care of children who are living under unfavorable conditions." Fritz and Kobayashi quote a friend of Masako´s who says: "She always loved children. Even when she herself was still childless she was always committed to the children around her. She has a heart for children. This wish from her lips sounds absolutely natural. That is one of the things by which she wants to make herself useful."
We can draw conclusions concerning their values and their vision also from the way of how they raise their own child. Naruhito said to journalists: "I as a father want to take part in the nursing of the child. In this way I can develop a feeling of unity not only with my child but also with my wife. In education, the part of the father is very important, too." He takes her bath with Aiko, feeds her, reads to her and goes for a walk with his two ladies. So, closeness, warmth and love in the family are obviously high priorities. Naruhito and Masako think that by raising children who feel loved and appreciated we can promote the happiness of all humanity. But it is also very important for Masako and Naruhito that Aiko who because of her birth lives separately from normal people´s life should still get to know the world outside, and as many aspects of it, as possible.
That is probably why her parents – as one among other measures - took her out to a park close by the palace to have her "koen-debut", her "park-debut" like any Japanese child. The "koen-debut" is a sort of ritual for little Japanese children (and their mothers), their first visit to a public playground. Nice conversation (for the mothers – with the other mothers who already "belong" to this place) and pretty clothing (for mother and child) are required. And the park that crown prince and crown princess chose for this purpose was by no means "imperial", but rather ordinary – its only advantage being its closeness to the palace. The playground is noisy as it is situated between two big roads, and the air is, accordingly, polluted. And Masako - just like any Japanese mother on her "koen-debut" - chatted nicely with the other mothers who happened to be present. The second time Naruhito went with them, too, and all three behaved as if they were not the future emperor and empress of Japan with Her Imperial Highness the princess but just the friendly family next door.
If you compare that to Akihito and Michiko comforting the survivors of the earth % 0– for which they were already critized as not having kept sufficient distance when they went down on their knees to talk to the people – you really see a big, big difference. Naruhito and Masako do not want to be close to their people only in exceptional situations of emergency but in everyday life.
I quote: "The prince dreams of a monarchy like in England that is not only a passive symbol, that is not only close to society and shares their suffering and joys and prays for the people. He wants to take responsibility, be active, take an influence on society.
The prince early showed this tendency. Already after he had finished his studies in England he said: "In the future we will need an imperial family who goes to the people. Concerning this, it is important that the members of the imperial family come into contact with a variety of persons on various scenes." Isamu Kamata, the musical friend of Naruhito, expresses it more precisely: "The prince does not want to be only symbolical. He cannot be satisfied with going somewhere and waving to the people like on New year´s day on the palace balcony. He prefers to sweat for the people and to work hard and really do something for them. That´s how he sees the new role of the tenno in his thoughts."
By his choosing Masako, Naruhito gave another sign that could not be overlooked. And immediately and with much zeal his wife took up the new role that the prince had imagined for her. Naruhito once said that she was a "very serious, patient and hardworking person". This is also the impression that visitors of the togu-palace receive. In Masako´s study there are always heaps of paper from which she gets information concerning certain themes. "When I attend an event I want to understand the historical and future aspects, and if possible, the meaning of the subject", Masako once declared. Even Naruhito had to admit that he had learnt a lot for the accomplishment of his own duties by his wife´s careful preparations. In this way, a part of his dream became true for the prince: He could learn and grow together with his wife.
After a time, a vision unfolded that Masako and Naruhito shared: "As we want to further peace for the world we both want to commit ourselves to the understanding between the nations and to environment issues. And as we wish happiness for all humanity we also want to help to build a society in which children can grow up in psychical and physical health.""
To be continued