Prinsara
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I don't view the situations of Laura and her mother as analogous (and don't think the King would): Astrid is the child of a monarch, a working royal, and lives in Belgium, and likewise with her spouse (albeit the working royal status of Lorenz is mostly nominal nowadays); none of that applies to Laura or her spouse.
So for Laura's spouse being given a lower title (no title) than Astrid's spouse, there are perfectly rational justifications. If Laura herself had a lower title than her mother, it would still be consistent with the differences between their situations (see for instance the Netherlands, where Constantijn is a Prince of the Netherlands but his children are merely Countesses and Count of Orange-Nassau).
In contrast, the situations of Laura and her brother (and their spouses) are analogous (private citizens, children of a younger child of a monarch, etc.), so the only plausible explanation for the inequality in their spouses' courtesy titles is their gender.
And yet you're still overlooking that the only thing that determines whether a spouse receives a courtesy title in the Belgian monarchy is gender.
The spouse of a man does (at least until we get to same-sex marriages); the spouse of a woman does not.
So then it would be appropriate to compare two women who have been treated differently and ask why they were treated differently. Not expect that a man and a woman will suddenly have their spouses treated equally. You would not, I think, be so hopeful Laura's husband would have received something, if not for her father, who is the exception. Not her brother, who is the rule.
I'm not sure I'm understanding this last "should" point correctly (I don't think anyone has raised it previously). Is the argument that if there is no history of gender equity, then there is no reason it should ever exist? If so, then no form of inequity should ever be remedied.
I think your last statement is an exaggeration. But yes, as far as royalty and nobility and the rules they observe are concerned, until something like the UK 2013 act comes along, there is no reason to pre-expect change from some of the last bastions of conservatism.
Philippe has no reason (or precedent, also very important!) that he should give a title to his niece's husband. Would it be an incredibly marginal point that doesn't actually do anything to advance the real cause of gender equality? Sure. But it's obviously not enough reason in his eyes that he should do anything other than the expected.
(Unless he somehow offered William the use of the courtesy title, and William turned it down.)
Seeing supposed change where it doesn't truly exist is only likely to lead to more frustration.
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