Observations or criticisms shouldn't be seen as "deeply entrenched hatred" for Letizia.
I've never seen that here.
I stand corrected, Emmily. Thanks.
However, in my very personal and humble opinion, there is a strain of intense, unwilling to be entertain evidence to the contrary, that one often sees regarding Letizia.
I usually stay away but every once in a while, it gets under my skin and I respond, perhaps too passionately today.
Take for instance, another argument that has been expressed as reason for dislike of Letizia that has been presented repeatedly and recently on this thread. Argument that
"she does not get along with her in-laws" and hence is ill-suited as Crown princess, is perceived as arrogant etc.
This argument has been presented almost from the beginning. The main backbone of this argument rested on frosty relations between Cristina and Felipe/Letizia. Every summer, every christmas, every easter etc, the sole focus was how Letizia does not get along with Cristina, is the reason behind the distance between Felipe and Cristina, thinks herself better than a royal born etc. Day in, day out, it was all Letizia fault and the rumors propagated ad- nauseam .
Yet we now know what was going on behind the scenes. The book on Inaki's corruption sheds further light on how early on Felipe and Inaki had a quarrel when Inaki asked Felipe to help him out financially with respect to paying for the mansion in Barcelona, how royal family owed it to him etc. We then have some of the emails Inaki sent around making sexual remarks about Letizia.
Given all the evidence, I have not seen one comment from critics of reflection, doubt, etc given the exposed reality. Instead it is ignored and next day we are back again to how Letizia does not get along with Cristina, how they were on the opposite ends of a family picture etc.
Inaki's sexual jokes on Letizia are no big deal, but Letizia not standing next to Cristina in a family picture is a big deal.
Not a single picture of Cristina interacting with little Leonor or Sofia is no big deal, but Letizia's pictures of her interacting warmly, playing with Cristina's kids is just for show, should be ignored, and we should still believe that something is wrong with Letizia and she does not make the effort to get along with her in-laws.
To break the argument logically, we have the following:
King: As we have seen, he is the man of previous century, an alpha male, who is unwilling to give space to his heir, let alone an outsider who married into the family. There was never going to be a warm cuddly relationship between King and Felipe's bride, Letizia or no Letizia. The fact that Letizia had charisma was a mark against her (a potential Diana). Hence better keep her down and on unsecure footing, lest she rises to threaten him.
Queen: Letizia appears to have a good relationship with her
Queen's sister Irene: Good relationship. We have had some news reports on how Letizia used to take the girls to visit the Queen and her sister many times a week. Maybe she still does.
Elena and her kids: OK, I guess. We do have evidence that Letizia gets along very well with Elena's daughter. Once when Victoria was small, Elena and her husband were in US. Victoria had some sort of a fall or something and had to be taken to the doctor. It was Letizia who took charge and whom Elena called from US to go to Victoria and comfort her. We have seen recent evidence of this, this past summer when Victoria hugged Letizia warmly.
Cristina : Bad
Royal friends
Princess Cristina of Bourbon-Two Sicilies and her husband : Over the years, on formal and private occasions, on casual occasions such as movies, we have seen Felipe and Letizia together with this couple and their families. They appear to be close family friends. This despite the fact that this princess is also very close to Infanta Cristina.
Royal cousins : Children of JC's elder sister appear to have extremely rocky marriages and divorces. Hence there are few instances of family gatherings where there is a chance to see Letizia interacting with them. When we have seen her, like kids birthday parties etc, things seem to be good.
Son of JC's younger sister appears to lead a very private life. His sister however is often seen and appears to be closer to Elena.
So all in all, it all boils down to Cristina and JC. But more Cristina then anything else. And it is Letizia's fault.