Well, maybe I missed something but why do you see it that way?
(I think the Moderator warned some girls not to discuss the cousin here because it's not confirmed whether he is marrying her or not. I honestly don't know what they discussed and why they got the warning. I don't know whether I am violating any rules. I will answer your question anyways. Hopefully I won't get a warning)
Nothing really. It just annoys me when girls here make it seem like the cousin is a villan and Hamdan is some poor victim because he's forced to marry her. Hamdan is a 37 year old man, he knows what he is doing.
I said this in a previous post, I will say again. I don't think anybody is pushed to marry someone they don't want to. Hamdan was engaged almost 8 years ago. If he had the choice to delay his marriage or break his engagement back then, then that is very telling that he does have the choice to marry when and whom.
I would like to believe the cousin has a choice too. But if we are to believe that Hamdan doesn't have a choice, then what makes these girls think that the poor girl has a choice? Also, if Hamdan doesn't like one wife, it's not a big deal because he can have others of his choice. The poor girl will have only one husband.
Also, if he was engaged to her back in 2008 and is marrying her now, then he has already put her through quite a lot. Between 2008 and 2019, he probably has married others and has children with them. While her life was at a standstill. I can only imagine what he will put her through after marriage. That makes her the victim in my opinion. Of course this is all speculation and I could be totally wrong. For the girls sake I hope I am totally wrong and I hope she will have a happy married life.
What are you talking about?
Obsessivelizzy, the reason moderators delete comments is because girls like you keep asking the same thing over and over. You saw that the poster above had asked me the same question. Was it really necessary for you to quote me and ask again?
